Non-verbal communication made easy

Here is an easy way to remember some basics of body-language and non-verbal communication. In order to soften up someone you are talking to, just remember “SOFTEN.” S – Smile (it is amazing what a genuine smile can do) O – Open posture (not holding arms in front of your body) F – Lean forward slightly (it shows interest) T – Touch (depending on the...
Read MoreDo you like risk?

Are you adventurous? After the article on risk taking and its connection to creativity, I thought it would be good to post a test so you can see how well you do. This is from Psychology Today, which has a lot of interesting articles and tests. The Adventure Quotient (AQ) Test will give you a good indicator if you are a risk taker or not.
Read MoreDo’s and don’ts of body language

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say. – Ralph Waldo Emerson Our body language says a lot about us. You don’t want to send the wrong message. Here is a practical list of things to avoid: Slouching – Usually shows a low energy level, lack of confidence, or poor self esteem. Folded arms – There are many reasons for doing this, but most people think it...
Read MoreMaking the DMV easier to deal with

A lot of my performance on stage relies on misdirection–making you focus on the unimportant things. To do this, I need to have your attention before I can misdirect it, so I spend a good deal of time studying the psychology of distraction and attention. The other day I came across an interesting article by David Maister, Ph.D., on waiting in lines. I thought it would be good info to know...
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